Stop raining on someones parade. Are you a joy taker? If so, just quit. One of the truly sad things I see is someone who is living it up for God be deflated by a mean, nasty and negative person. Can't we rejoice with those who rejoice? We should. We are supposed to... It's ok to vent to a friend. It's ok to talk with God and help you get out of your funk. It's ok to ask others to mourn with you. It's not ok, and not appreciated to rain on someones parade. Rejoice with those who rejoice...rejoice! Encourage. Pray for. Lift up. Be a light in the darkness. Blessed are the meek. Love one another. Go in peace and go with God.