Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Tree Planting and All Church Picnic- this weekend!


Tree Planting Weekend- Saturday

Beginning 9 am Saturday

Colonial Nursery will be planting 50 trees and we will be applying mulch around them as well.  Please bring a wheel barrow if you have one, gloves, rakes and shovels.  

Other work available to do on Saturday will include: 
Planting Shrubs
Trimming Trees (please bring trimmers, etc)
Organizing the Church garage
Set Up for the All Church Potluck

It’s going to be a great day of working together and enjoying fellowship.
 

All Church Potluck Lunch- Sunday

Everyone is invited to our All Church Arbor Day Weekend Potluck Lunch.  Please bring a side dish and dessert.  Arvest Bank will provide Hotdogs and Hamburgers.

Our meal begins right after our last worship service around 11:30 am.  Tables and chairs will be set up in the gym.  

Forecast is for 76 degrees and sunny.  A beautiful day to enjoy time with your church family.


Schedule for the Weekend:

Saturday April 27th-

9 am- Plant trees, Mulch, Trim Trees, Plant Shrubs, organize the church garage and set up for the potluck.

Sunday April 28th- 

11:30-1145 am- Pray and enjoy a great meal together as a church family.  

Donate a Tree-

We are very close to reaching our goal of 50 trees.  If you have not donated a tree yet, please consider donating a tree for $200 in honor of memory of a loved one.

Thank you!

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Holy Week Is Nearly Upon Us



Events and holidays sometimes seem to sneak up on us.  We are just living life, moving along and all the sudden we are two weeks from Christmas, someone's birthday or the church is about a week away from celebrating Easter again.
A few months ago (November) we opened our new sanctuary.  It's seems like forever ago, but it was not.  We celebrated our first Christmas Eve services and kicked off the new year as well.  Now we face Holy Week.
We begin with Palm Sunday.  There is much celebrating and eager anticipation for the kids waiting for candy and Easter egg hunts.  The children of Grace will march through the sanctuary waving palm branches in honor of Jesus triumphal entry into Jerusalem.
Then we turn toward the darker side of Holy Week.
Maundy Thursday- March 28
This year, we debut a brand new original drama called "Surely Not I!"
We will hear from key Apostles as they realize a betrayer is among them.
They first think they might betray Jesus, but then the accusations fly.  It will be a truly moving experience.  We will also celebrate Holy Communion that night.
Good Friday- March 29
On Good Friday we continue our sermon series "The Sent (rather than receiving) Christian" with
"It's Not About Me?"  Our choir will sing and our confirmation class will help with the service.

And then, the party begins!  We celebrate.

Easter Sunday- March 31
Join us this Easter as we celebrate the Resurrection of Jesus Christ.  Death was defeated and new life is available for all.  815, 915 and 1030 am.
Easter Egg Hunt for the kids during 915 and 1030 am services.


Go in peace and go with God.

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Shrove Tuesday- Fat Tuesday?

What is Shrove Tuesday?  I thought it was Fat Tuesday?  It's the day before Ash Wednesday, which begins our 46/40 day journey to Easter.  Our District Superintendent Reverend Cody Collier shared this recently.

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Shrove Tuesday (as in "to shrive," to absolve or do penance) marks the last hurrah before Lent begins. It's the same concept as the festivals of Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday) or Carnival (farewell to the flesh, carne). In England and some European countries, it is called Pancake Day as the pantry gets cleaned out of extravagant, fatty, cake-like foods that would be a temptation during Lent—in favor of foods that were designated for a journey, such as unleavened bread.
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Now that makes more sense.  So as we dine this day, we look toward a time of fasting.  What celebrate and dine if not for the fast?

At Grace, we always focus on two aspects of our Lenten journey.

The word Lent means (spring or forty days).  It denotes the forty six days (minus Sundays because we are not required to fast on Sundays) from Ash Wednesday to Easter.

So,

What are you giving up (fasting) for Lent?


What are you taking on (service) for Lent?


Here are a few ideas.

Give up coffee, pop or soda, chocolate, eating out, Facebook or something else.

Take on serving a meal once a month at Ronald McDonald House, volunteer at Lee's Summit Social Services, volunteer to usher, clean your neighbors yard or just do something nice consistently for someone else.

Lent is a great time to work on your own spiritual life.  It's time to get healthy, think of others and pray for guidance.

So, what are you giving up and taking on for Lent?

And remember, once your receive the imposition of ashes on your forehead, your Lenten commitment is sealed.  Please come prepared to make that commitment.

Go in peace and go with God.

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Spiritual But Not Religious

This week at Grace we are moving through our sermon series "Second Chances".  The real idea behind the series is to take another look at something you missed.  Maybe we all can receive a second chance, and extend another second chance to others.

The phrase "Spiritual but not religious" has been around for a few years.  As a pastor I've heard people who don't want to attend worship regularly use this phrase.  I have friends and family who do not attend worship or who don't believe that Jesus is the son of God.

In the very beginning, religious practices were designed for us to move closer to God.  As many have experienced, church and religion do not always meet that criteria.  In fact, some churches and religions actually move us farther away from God.  Why?  Well, we are human and we sin.  Sin is anything that is contrary to the love of God.

When a group of Christians and a church do not extend the love of God to others, we fail.

When the church is more focused on a building than transforming the world, we fail.

When we judge others, we fail.

No wonder millions of people are claiming the status of "spiritual but not religious".

However, there is a thin line.  The thin line rests between:

I have a deep desire to know God but reject organized religion because of my personal experiences or the experiences of others.

AND

I'm too cynical to care about trying something new, so I use a phrase that does not really pertain to my life.

Not all churches are bad examples.  Just like people who aren't connected to church are not spiritual.

All sides of the of the spiritual crowds should be less judgmental of each other.  If you are looking for a deep relationship with God, your journey can be enhanced by gathering in community with others seeking that relationship too.  There are hundreds and thousands of churches making extraordinary differences in the lives of millions.

I'm asking for us all to listen a bit more to each others' stories and see where God might be calling us to gather.  And it might not always be in a church building on a Sunday morning.

The following will help us all be better informed on this topic.


NPR did a great series of stories and podcasts this last week on "The Nones", the spiritual, but not religious crowd.
You can find one of the blogs HERE



The three articles below will help you better understand what "spiritual, but not religious" people are seeking.  They will also help us all clear up many misconceptions about worship, religion and church.

Excellent Explanation of Misunderstanding Most Religions and Religious Practices


New Forms of Religious Worship- The Self and Stuff


What About Community?



Go in peace and go with God

Peace, Jeremy

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

New Year's and Second Chances

New Year's usually causes us to look back and look forward.  Looking back it was a year with ups and downs, hopefully more ups.

A few things happened this past year in the life of Grace that you might be interested in hearing.

-- We finished construction and opened our brand new sanctuary

-- Published our first Enhanced E book called "A Story of Grace"

-- We were featured in the Kansas City Star for our LEED Certification

-- Record Christmas Eve Crowd

-- $10,000 was spent on our Christmas Toy Drive

-- Expanded our ongoing Missional Events - LSSS, Boys Home, ReStart, Pro Deo and Jr High Backpack Program

-- Donated 140 chairs to Faithbridge UMC at the Lake for their worship service

-- Helped numerous families during the grieving process

-- Celebrated with numerous families at Weddings

-- Celebrated new births, new members and baptisms

-- Consulted with several other churches in the area of "contemporary worship"

-- Resourced with several other churches in the areas of leadership and finances

-- Hosted Pastoral Leadership Development for our new clergy in the Missouri Annual Conference

-- Paid our Apportionments in full

-- Free Weddings

-- Handed off full leadership of Renaissance Church

-- Sonshine Preschool continues to grow

So what does the future hold for Grace?  As we reflect on the events of this past year, I can't help but be excited about our future together.  We are healthy and vital congregation that continues to reach out in service and concern to the world.  We truly are a light in the darkness.

Thank you for all you have done and will do to make this a wonderful church.

Thank you our staff for their extraordinary work.

And thank God that we have a church to call home.

Don't forget to join us in January for our new sermon series Second Chances.  It might just change yoru life or the life of someone you know and love.

Go in peace and go with God.

Oh yeah, and BE THE LIGHT!

Thursday, October 11, 2012

A Story of Grace by Jeremy Vickers

This past month, I published an ebook exclusively through Apple's Ibooks.  It can be downloaded on either the IPad 2 or IPad 3.  Why only there?  Contained in the book are "enhancements".  At the beginning of each chapter, we added video introductions.  This is known as an "Enhanced" ebook.  When I began writing and building the ebook, Apple was the only company that supported these enhanced ebooks.  The Nook (Barnes and Noble) has just come on board as well.  There are rumors the Kindle will allow for Enhanced Ebooks, but currently there are no plans to allow embedded videos.
After a short three week quality assurance process, Ibooks published it directly to their website.

A Story of Grace shares with guests and visitors who we are and what we believe as a church.  Through six chapters, we discuss our local church history, who Jesus Christ is, how we define discipleship, what it means to be missional, and how people can connect here at Grace.  I hope that by doing this we are giving people another opportunity to connect with Grace.  For those who would like to dig beyond worship, our Facebook page or the Website, it gives them a chance to learn more about Grace.

I believe that technology and social media can help, not hinder, the ways in which we can share the story of Jesus.  Previously on this blog I have written extensively on social media and I pray that our churches will continue to strive toward relevance in their communities.

If you would like to take a look at the new book, here is the press release and a link to the book on Itunes.

Press Release

A Story of Grace by Jeremy Vickers
Enhanced Ebook
Available exclusively on the Ipad 2 and 3 on Apple’s Ibooks

Pastor Jeremy Vickers shares congregational insights in his new book.  

Jeremy Vickers, 38, has been lead pastor at Grace United Methodist Church in Lee’s Summit for eight years.  In his new book, “A Story of Grace”, he shares a clear and concise vision how all churches should be a “light in the darkness”.  From humble beginnings as a new church start, through a time in the wilderness and now a healthy, vital and growing congregation again, Grace continues to be a relevant witness in their community.

Jeremy drew on his many experiences in rural, county seat and suburban churches to develop a missional and contextually relevant congregational witness.  “Grace has always been a faithful and strong church.  All they needed was a clear path to walk,” the author recently said.  

The book is written to anyone who is new to Grace and has a desire to know more about how the church functions and what they believe.  A unique feature in this book is the Enhanced video additions of the author sharing his personal views before each chapter.  It is truly a first for the Christian community, as Enhanced ebooks are not available yet on all Ebook platforms.   After seeing this book, many churches are surely to follow in a similar fashion for their guests and visitors by creating and developing their own Enhanced ebooks.  It is a new and advanced way of sharing the timeless message and story of Jesus Christ and His followers.  

Jeremy Vickers is an ordained elder in the United Methodist Church.  He lives in Lee’s Summit, Missouri with his wife, son and their golden retriever.  



Here is the link.

http://itunes.apple.com/us/book/a-story-of-grace/id561859204?ls=1





Tuesday, August 14, 2012

What's Next

Over the past few weeks some of us at Grace have been talking about the future.  As our new sanctuary continues under construction, we've opened ourselves up to ideas, questions and prayers for what's next.  Do we shift worship times?  Do we merge services?  Saturday night?  Sunday night?
Out of these discussions some questions have arisen to help guide our thoughts and prayers.  They have been framed this way.

What is best for my family?

What is best for this church?

What is best for those not yet here?

And the really tough one, what is God's will?


1. What is best for my family?
Some might here this question and immediately jump on it as a selfish question based on our own needs, wants and desires.  In addition, should this really be the first question we ask?
But in my humble opinion, it's a valid question.  Why?  How many times to we actually pray and think about this in our lives?  Much of life is running and doing.  If we actually sat down as a family and said,  "What is best for the spiritual journey of our family?", the answers might surprise us.

2. What is best for this church?
We are the body of Christ.  We have a church family made up of members, guests, new guests and staff, etc.  As we think about the future of Grace and where we might be in a few years, it's tough to answer "what is best?"  So, "what is best for our Grace church family, leadership, staff and pastors?" might be a better question.

3. What is best for those not yet here?
Grace has access to numerous amounts of research and data about the non-churched in our community. We also have research throughout the United States from Barna and other sources.  One of those other sources lifted up that most young families in the US would like to attend a worship service on Sunday morning between 9-930 am.  In addition, traditional or blended services are most well attended between 10-1030 am (especially locally).  Some churches have a Sunday school hour, but many churches have canceled Sunday school.  Now some of you are reading this saying stuff like
"That can't be true".
"The statistics are wrong"
And my favorite is "that has not been my experience".
But, do we really know the thoughts of the "non-churched".  Much work has been done in this area by numerous organizations.  This data is useful, but should not be our only guide.

4. What is the will of God...for my family, this church, those not yet here?
To love God and neighbor means that we set aside our own personal wants and desires.  We open our heart, soul, strength and mind to His leading and teaching.  If we are here to truly make disciples, that would mean a) grow the disciples here b) reach new disciples

Everything we do should be focused through our understanding of God's will, revealed in Jesus Christ, and shared to us through the Word of God, the Church, our own experiences and our accumulated knowledge.

Please think pray about these questions and you look toward the future here at Grace.  The church, the world and our relationship with God is ever changing.  Be open to the Holy Spirit.

And ultimately, the questions should be read in reverse order.

Go in peace and go with God.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

There Are No Lines

Prevailing wisdom and philosophies do not cover all of a generation.  No, it is sadly and usually the loudest that are heard.  So in the following, this is not all inclusive or encompassing.  It is an attempt to explain why things, for some, are very confusing.  I know members of all these generations who get it.  I know some who don't.  All that matters is LOVE.  If you struggle understanding why Twitter is so popular, the following will help.


Color Inside the Lines (silent generation)

When I was in kindergarten, I remember Miss Mapes teaching us all "color inside the lines".  We sat at our desks (divided tables) working diligently to make sure that not one bit of color went outside the lines.  At the time of course, we were only given one coloring sheet so if we messed up, no second chance, no extra credit, you failed.  It was an exercise in discipline and framed the standards of the education we would receive from then on.  And that phrase continued to meet me in my work, personal and educational life.  The very tired phrase of "we've never done it that way before" comes to mind with this mindset.
That teaching, philosophy and learning carries many people through much of their life.  Just keep your head down, go along to get along, and don't rock the boat.  In a world with much certainty, jobs that lasted at the same company until retirement, families that didn't move 4-5 times while the kids were growing up, and a deep sense of community and trust developed over time, that worldview worked and help together the fabric of society.  It was the prevailing wisdom of the Silent generation.  Interestingly, no member of the Silent generation was ever elected President, and many of them have faded from the social and political world.

Color Outside the Lines (boomer generation)

In the late 1990's, while I was in grad school, a new phrase began to emerge.  That phrase was "color outside the lines".  There are several books that claim the phrase in their title, but I remember hearing professors use it frequently.  It was touted as the next great philosophy.  Bend the rules.  Live in the gray of the world.  The words both/and were lifted up as well.  This idea took hold and many pushed a can't we agree to disagree view.  Not only that, but it lifted up a kind of dualism of attempting to live in both worlds of two arguments.
This view comes from the Boomer generation.  Boomers grew up in a time of significant change in society.  Worldviews were shifting and changing with each new protest and dramatic political decision made in the 1960's.  There were several deaths of prominent leaders in the US that caused many boomers to question authority, purpose, meaning and the stability of the world.  They are known as the protest generation, although many of that generation moderated with age and became more like the previous generation in regard to work.
For many, "color outside the lines" was a revolutionary statement made from the Boomers to the next few generations.

There Are No Lines (Gen X and beyond)
In what appears to be an evolution of thought, which has been built upon the work of others, I would postulate something different.  How about, "there are no lines".  In a world that attempts to be bound by rules and control, there are no lines.  What kept us apart for many years is long since gone.
In a world of deep interconnectedness through the web, new connections and ideas can be assimilated and adapted immediately.  The edges are now all soft.
Generation X grew up in a very similar time as the Boomers, but with significant adaptation of new technologies.
Things are blending together so quickly, that there is not enough time to define it, other than to say, there are no lines.  And this new world, it is for sure and definitely NOT FLAT!
Stop trying to find the lines, follow the lines or color over the lines.
There are no lines.  Once you recognize this, you will finally discover the lines you see were self imposed.  Only try and realize the truth.
There are no lines.
The world is an empty canvass.  Make of it what you will.

Sadly many do not understand this and use rules and regulations to abuse those who disagree.  Many will attempt to understand, but try and merge a misguided and well- meaning version.  It won't work.

We are predisposed to repeat the past, unless we choose to change it.

Do we wonder why Gen X and the Millenials have slowly faded from church?  This is why.

Seek the abiding and magnificent love of God.  Receive it.  Share it.  Live it.  And please reject the rules based religions that bind you up, and keeps you from true peace and happiness.

Embrace the full love of God in Jesus Christ.

Go in peace and go with God.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

General Conference 2012- Final Thoughts- Disheartened, but Hopeful

What Happened?
It came.  It went.  Little changed.  With 8 million dollars spent on a global gathering of United Methodists, some interesting stuff happened.
The worship services and preaching were excellent.  The United Methodist Church is a global church.
We are growing in Africa, so much that resources are scarce.  It might be the best investment the UMC can make, and yet, I feel we did not do enough.
Most every change that was made has already, or will soon be, challenged and sent to the Judicial Council.

The big initiatives that would really help us
Set Aside Bishop- did not pass
Structure Change- passed, but ruled unconstitutional by Judicial Council
Lower Budget 5%- passed, but how will it work now with the Structural changes ruled unconstitutional?
Guaranteed Appointments- passed, but challenged
Annual Conference structure changes- passed, but will probably be challenged.

Personal Reflections

After watching the first week and half of GC, I became disheartened.  Not about the UMC, the future of the UMC, the church I serve or the Christians I know.

I was disheartened by the legislative swamp and bureaucratic mess that unfolded as a small group of people seemed to filibuster and challenge anything and everything.  Some people have become good at the wrong things.  That is one of my biggest fears in ministry.  I pray I never become good at meaningless and trivial things that do not bring about transformational change in the church.

We have a wealth of talented and gifted leaders in the UMC.  A small number of Conferences in the United States grow every year.  Some others are on the path to growth.  Most have been in decline for years and show no chance of growing.

Can a gathering of 1000 people agree on anything?  The United States House of Representatives is only 435, the Senate 100, speaking for 300+ million.

Suggestions

Roberts Rules of Order should be tossed out as a guiding document for how function in legislative session.  I have no idea what to replace it with, but we need to do something.

One thousand is too large a group.  Why not limit it to 500?

With Plan A, B and UMC, we still could not figure out how to move toward change.  Can someone come up with something that can pass a Constitutional challenge?

Do we have too many seminaries?  Many are in decline.  How about 72 hours for an MDIV (I will keep pushing this as long as I live)

Do our General Agencies do what they were designed to do?  Are they still relevant to making disciples?

Final Thoughts

We have a great need for transformational leadership at General Conference and in the Episcopal Office.  My prayer for all delegations is that when they vote for Bishops they would seriously consider the following-

Will this person help the church make disciples?
Will this person refocus the efforts of the Conference toward leadership and discipleship?
What is this person's track-record for making disciples and leadership?

Great and faithful leadership will help turn around the church.  We cannot continue to go in the direction we are headed, because within fifty years we will be no more.

Does the Methodist church still have something to say?  Is our expression of Christianity relevant?  I honestly and truly believe we have something relevant to say.  We have growing churches in Missouri. We continue to plant new congregations.  The United Methodist Church grew in Missouri last year.  It has not been easy, but it is possible with the right leadership in place and a well charted course.

I thank God I serve in Missouri.

Go in peace and go with God.

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

General Conference 2012: Wesley Covenant and Guaranteed Appointments

With the many changes, discussions and legislation passed this General Conference 2012, I am reminded of the relevance of Wesley's prayer.



I am no longer my own, but thine.
Put me to what thou wilt, rank me with whom thou wilt.
Put me to doing, put me to suffering.
Let me be employed for thee or laid aside for thee,
exalted for thee or brought low for thee.
Let me be full, let me be empty.
Let me have all things, let me have nothing.
I freely and heartily yield all things to thy pleasure and disposal.
And now, O glorious and blessed God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit,
thou art mine, and I am thine.
So be it.
And the covenant which I have made on earth,
let it be ratified in heaven.
Amen.


Emphasis above is mine.

As stated on an earlier post HERE, I am rather indifferent to the change.  Or at least I was, until I started to see hundreds of comments from all kinds of clergy and laity.  I know there was a great deal of time and effort put into studying the change.  But, I wonder if we looked at how this would actually be lived out in each Conference.  How do we define effectiveness?  Does each Conference get to choose?  Does the Cabinet and Bishop define?  Maybe each Annual Conference can define.  What happens the first time that one person is held to one standard, and another person held to another standard?   Are there really safeguards?

Again, my hope and prayer is that I am, and will continue to be fruitful and effective in ministry.  And the day that I feel I can no longer be effective as an Ordained Elder in the United Methodist Church, I will walk away.  No animosity or anger.  Just peace that I did all I could when I had the opportunity.

Go in peace and go with God.

Friday, April 27, 2012

General Conference 2012- Clergy Effectiveness and Vital Churches- A Parable

I Love Golf
I love to play golf.  Wait, I loved playing golf a few years ago.  Today, it's a struggle. I was a pretty good golfer, regularly posting scores in the top 5% of all golfers.  I wasn't the best by any means, but compared to everyone else, I was up there.
Then five years ago something happened.  My life began to change.  I was in a car accident that sidelined me for a while.  I married, and we soon had a beautiful son together.  Other commitments came into my life and golf was pushed way to the back.  I have not played golf much in the past few years.

Back On the Course
I finally was able to play golf this past week.  The day was perfect.  The temperature was in the low 80's for the round, and I was playing with a guy I played in tournaments with before, and we push each other to shoot better.

We started the day off, no one really in front of us, no one pushing from behind.  Played the first three holes and the day looked great.

Then we noticed the course start to change.  The course was under repair, to put it lightly.  For some reason, the owner decided to strip all the fairways and change the grass.  This left grooves in between the old grass and the new grass.  The fairway was no longer the place to be, it was easier to play out of the rough or sand.

Things Were Not the Same
The course management that I had learned over the years was completely thrown out.  I had to scramble to make pars and bogeys.  The day was promising and the more we played, the changes became a huge impediment to enjoying a round of golf.

The course in a few years will supposedly be better, so the guys in the clubhouse late told us.  If we just waited 2-3 years and were patient, it would all be worth it.  They had done this to the greens a few years ago as well, but honestly, we could not tell much difference.

Out of Practice
I will admit that I was not as practiced as I could have been.  My drives were good.  My second or third shots were solid as well.  I really struggled was putting.  I three putted a bunch.  Putting is not like hitting a driver.  Putting is very technical and if you are really good at it, it's about feel.   I had lost my touch and fine motor skills to put the ball in the hole.  It took me two to three putts, instead of one or two.  That adds up.  Mistake after mistake began to erode my confidence, and it started to show.
If I had just kept up practicing my putting these last few years, not even paying a whole round, it would have been a whole different story.

My Favorite Courses
Things in golf have really changed.  The equipment is drastically different since I purchased my last set of clubs just eight years ago.  My clubs still work ok for me, but there have been changes.
I addition to the equipment changing, courses all over the country are closing.  They are opening a few new courses in growing areas, but in general, we have less golf courses in the US today than we did just ten years ago.
Two of my favorite golf courses closed recently.  I had my best games on both of those courses.
I was sad at first, but it's just the way it is.  Sure, I could have played more, joined the club, but I guess I was not that committed.

End of our Day
We both finished our rounds with a higher than usual score.  Why?  I know I was out of practice, but the course sure made it very difficult to enjoy the experience or even play better.  Courses are usually set up to challenge you, but this one was in terrible shape.  It wasn't a challenge, it was a golfers worst nightmare.
As we left, my friend, a life long golfer remarked, "You know, I think we can be done playing here.  There are other courses we should play."  I agree.

My Lesson
What I learned the other day is something I already know, and have known for a long time.

If I want to play better golf, I need to practice.  I also need to find courses that are in reasonably good shape that will challenge me.  I enjoy being challenged and working hard to achieve things.  Those courses are out there, I just have to find them and support them.  


For the UMC
Times have changed.  The world is different.  Many of our churches and pastors are unwilling to change and do not regularly practice healthy spiritual disciplines.  If we are not faithfully practicing, then our churches suffer and our communities suffer.

What churches and pastors need are a set of tools, practices and priorities that will yield fruitfulness and effectiveness in ministry and mission.

What the General Conference needs to do is give Annual Conferences, Bishops, Churches, Laity and Pastors the freedom to experiment.  That might mean changing structures, rules, procedures and eliminating some things that we hold dear.

If our true goal is to make disciples of Jesus Christ, then why do we focus on so many other things at General Conference?

I applaud the Missouri Conference for the effort our Directors, Bishop, Cabinet, Laity and Pastors.  We have implemented a strategy to "turn around" our decline.

That strategy has included: a big change in Annual Conference structure, the Healthy Church Initiative, Pastoral Leadership Development classes, Laity Leadership Development Classes and a willingness to embrace new forms of local church models.

People love God.  People want to love God.  People want to know God.  Let us put away tired arguments and tired fights and focus on something very simple.

Love God
Love Your Neighbor

Let us stop blaming, calling names and speaking poorly of each other.  It's only out of love in Jesus Christ that we can work together.  That will allow us to call each other into accountability and make a difference by transforming lives in Jesus Christ.

My hope and prayer for this General Conference is that the healthy changes that need to be made will be without negativity and some feeling hurt.

Also, that once the decisions have been made, that we will leave united as one body, even though we may disagree about the changes, made or not made.

Go in peace and go with God.

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

General Conference 2012: Ministry Study Commission: Part 2- The Path to Ordination

As the United Methodist Church listened to those who had come through ordination process the past few years, several things became clear.

The Concerns

1- the Path to Ordination takes a long time
2- seminary takes a long time
3- the whole process is confusing

So in response to these concerns, and other concerns, one idea has come forth.

The Idea

Ordain clergy directly following graduation from seminary, then two years later vote them into full connection.

My Journey to Ordination
I was in the first class to be commissioned in the Missouri West Annual Conference in 2000.  I came into the process in 1994.  In 1998 I was given a license and became a student pastor.  During the process I was asked if I would like go under the 1996 Discipline and the NEW process.  I thought, sure, why not?  I don't mind being a guinea pig.  So I chose to move toward ordination on the new path.  I graduated from seminary in 2000, was Commissioned, then after 3 years under probation was ordained in 2003.

The Confusion
As I moved through the process I had several very distinct feelings and experiences.

1- No one understood the new process
2- No one could clearly explain why the change had been made
3- The Board of Ordained Ministry and the Bishop were not sure what to make of a Commissioning Service vs. the old way of Ordaining Deacon, then Elder.
4- Lots of my peers liked to gripe about the process and ministry
5- Whether it was this process or the other, no one had a well thought out program post seminary.

Looking Back
As I look back now I see the wisdom of Commissioning and then ordination.  Much of the process should be used to help prepare the candidate for Ordination.  To be completely honest here, seminary did not prepare me for ministry, it prepared me to a be a Theological Thinker.  My mentor Rev. Bob Farr did more to prepare me to lead the church than seminary.  I deeply appreciate all my professors and classes, but the point of seminary in my opinion was NOT to train clergy leaders.   If so, I missed those classes.

Seminary and the Length of the Process
With all due respect to the Commission, it is my feeling that they may have missed the mark on this one.  It's not that the process needs to be shortened.  The process is waaaaay tooooo complicated.  Check out our Steps into Ordained Ministry Chart.  If you look at the chart we show candidates, it's a confusing nightmare.  Maybe it's time to simplify, not radically change again.

Arguments For, As I've Heard Them
Commissioning has no theological, Biblical or historical connection to the church or our traditions.
The Process is too long to ordination.
Other denominations don't understand our process or non-ordained serving the sacraments.
These changes are all coming anyway, we should just accept them now.

I'm not kidding, those are the arguments as I heard them.


In response to all of this, and in talking with several groups of people, here is my humble offering.


My Proposal
A. Move the MDiv from 90 hours to 72 hours
     60 hours of classroom education
     12 hours of practical internship in the local church
B. Continue the Process of Commissioning after Graduation
C. Three Year Residency
D. During those three years, two years of "training" clergy to a specific set of leadership proficiencies, determined by the BOOM, Cabinet and Bishop.

I deeply respect the work that everyone has done on discerning our future path toward ordination.  I thank them for their hard work.  It is not easy dealing with all of these possible changes and views.  We've been living into this version since 1996.  Sixteen years is a lot of ordinations under the present system, and my guess is that very few of us were asked our opinion about this topic.  We had few seats at the table.
So whatever happens the next two weeks, I pray and hope that we make the changes that need to be made and not make changes for the sake of making changes.  This one issue might be better served if we address the real struggles which are-

Cost of Seminary
Length of Seminary
An Ordination Process that does not train, it just interviews

Grace and peace to all our delegates.
Go in peace and go with God.

And go check out our Bishop's blog.

Monday, April 23, 2012

General Conference 2012: Ministry Study Commission- Part 1- Guaranteed Appointments

Over the next few weeks the United Methodist Church will gather in Tampa, Florida.  Over 1000 delegates from the whole world will pray, worship, discuss and vote on change in the UMC.  There are many areas of change, such as: structure, finance, leadership, size of agencies, ordination, guaranteed appointments, etc.

I am not a delegate to General Conference from Missouri.  We have a great delegation led by the Rev. Dr. Cody Collier and Brian Hammons.  I was elected to go to Jurisdictional Conference in July 2012.

One of the major issues GC will address this year is the idea of eliminating the Guaranteed Appointment.

The reasons given to do away with Guaranteed Appointments, as I have personally heard them, are as follows:

a) We are unable to exit unfruitful and ineffective clergy from pastoral leadership.
b) Historically this was to ensure diversity of leadership.
c) We have too many elders and not enough full time appointments to place them.
d) Historically Itinerancy and the Guarantee are NOT linked
e) Our system has produced ineffective clergy because of the guarantee

There are many other reasons shared, but these seemed to be the ones that stuck out to me.

Here is one quote from an article from a pastor on our delegation.

“We decided that the system of guaranteed appointments has created mediocrity, an expectation that clergy will have a job no matter how effective they are and that churches will get a pastor even if they are not functioning in a healthy way or participating in living missionally,” said the Rev. Amy Gearhart, an elder in the Missouri Annual Conference and a commission member." UMNS

So this is what I have read and heard as the reasons behind the change.  I will be honest here- I'm indifferent to this change.  If it happens, ok.  If not, ok.  I'm not sure what to think at this point.

What I will say is that in discussing this with several younger clergy members, and potential clergy members, they are strongly against the change.  Their arguments are as follows.

a) There is a process already in place to exit ineffective clergy from pastoral leadership.
b) Historically and in the future, this will protect and ensure diversity of leadership.
c) Let's be creative in appointments, instead of proposing radical change.
d) Itinerancy and the Guarantee may not have been intended to be linked, but practically and personally for many pastors, it's become part of our covenantal life.
e) Clergy are not ineffective because of the guarantee.  There are many other reasons for ineffective or unfruitfulness in leadership.

There were many other reasons for this group too, but these stuck out to me.

Here is a quote from another article.

"The Rev. Pam Estes has led a charge of three tiny churches in rural southern Arkansas and a small city church in Little Rock. Altogether, she has served Arkansas United Methodists in ordained ministry for 21 years, always going where her bishop sends her.
That is the covenant the church has had with its ordained elders: Serve where you are assigned and you always will have an appointment. Now that promise could be threatened: The denomination’s 2008-2012 Commission to Study the Ministry has made a preliminary recommendation of doing away with clergy job guarantees.
Estes worries about the uncertainty that she and other pastors will face if such a proposal is approved by the 2012 General Conference, the denomination’s top legislative body.
“What will happen if my next appointment doesn’t work out?” she said. “Would I just be let go? By 2012, I would be 60-plus years old, and I’m a single woman.” UMNS
Of course, what are unintended consequences of this change?  The younger clergy I talked with said you will see an rash of retirements, and less young clergy coming into ministry.  Could their be abuses?
Or, could this help drive fruitfulness and effectiveness to such an extent as to stop the drop in membership in attendance because we've added a new level of accountability?

Our Bishop Robert Schnase shared it in a way that makes a great deal of sense.

Imagine that you chair the History Department of a university, and three tenured professors announce their retirement. Student enrollment has declined and finances are tight, so you close one position and announce openings for two new people. You forward search criteria to the Human Resources Department, defining what qualities the positions require—educational credentials, professional associations, publishing history, teaching experience, and references. Some weeks later, the Search Committee reports that they’ve had 16 people apply. Five did not have requisite credentials, one had a record of improper conduct, and two did not interview well. Eight persons met every criterion and did fine with interviews. Therefore, the Search Committee has contracted for tenured positions with the eight applicants who met all the requirements and these have all been assigned to your department!

I can't imagine how conferences can put forth more ordinands than they have appointments, but it is happening and will only get worse unless something changes soon.

Basically, the guaranteed appointment is like Tenure.  And it only takes 2 years from your Master of Divinity degree to receive it.

Our Bishop also shared this on his blog.


The real issue surrounding guaranteed appointment is not the 3% of ineffective clergy. It’s the disconnection between the numbers of people credentialed and the numbers we need to maximize our mission. It takes an average attendance of 125 or more to support a full-time elder without strangling vital ministry. Each year we have fewer churches that can afford full-time pastors. Some conferences have one elder in a pastoral role per 70 people in attendance. This is unsustainable, and we need mechanisms to regulate the numbers to fit the mission. Frankly, we need to move from credentialing processes with a default of “as long as you complete the assignments and we find nothing egregious, you are approved,” to a default of “you are not likely to be approved unless you’ve demonstrated exemplary fruitfulness in ministry.”  


And it the next ten years, it might be 150 or 175 due to health insurance.

The guaranteed appointment has caused us to really focus on fruitfulness in the church.  The great struggle is how will we and how do we define fruitfulness.  Depending on the context fruitfulness might look significantly different.

Again, I'm not sure how I feel about all of this.  Is this something that needs to be changed immediately to help the church?  Does there need to be a grandmother clause for those who are already ordained?
I hope and pray that the discussions for and against will yield some great wisdom and clarity so that all may see which path to take.

Overall, both sides have well thought out and faithful views of our present situation.  Here are some if's.

If we reached more people for Christ, this would not be an issue.
If our churches were growing, this would not be an issue.
If we were all growing deeper and closer to who we are called to be, this would not be an issue.

The UMC in the United States is on a serious decline of 500,000 members every decade.  That does not sound very fruitful.

As our delegates attend General Conference, let us pray for the now and future United Methodist Church.  Let us all be a faithful witness so that other will know us and Jesus Christ by our love.

UPDATE** It passed.  There is no longer a guaranteed appointment for Elders in the United Methodist Church.  

In Part 2, I plan on discussing ordination directly after seminary, which is one of the proposals that will be lifted up this GC.

Go in peace and go with God.

Here is a link to our Bishop's blog

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Social Media and the Church Part 7

7.  It's All About Connecting

In the last thirty years, staying connected to others has taken a giant leap forward.  Think about it for a moment, do you remember in the early 1980's and making a long distance phone call was a big deal?  Or those new car phones that were outrageously expensive and rarely worked.  Then pagers for people other than doctors.  Cell phones came along in the mid 1990's for some of us, but reception was still spotty.  Personal computers and email hit in the 1990's big as well.  Google came around in the late 1990's as well, but didn't start really being used by the masses until 2001 and thereafter.  Yahoo was a big deal, not so much anymore.  Aol was a big deal, not so much anymore.  And the now ultimate way to connect is facebook.  800 million users, with a limit of 5000 friends per user (who really has 5000 friends).
The church has many roles in the world today.  One of the most important roles is helping people stay connected to God.  Out of that relationship, we are called to love God, neighbor and enemy.  We are also called to serve God and neighbor.
We have never in the history of the world had as much information as we do now available to us.
We have never in the history of the world been better connected to our neighbors as well.
But there is something missing.  Information alone cannot convert.  Information and argument alone cannot change people.
If you watch politics these days you see an inherent belief in all sides.  If they can just get enough people to agree with them (because they are right), then they will feel justified in their behavior and beliefs.
And that somehow, someway, that winning arguments rules the day.
The church sadly has adopted a few of those principles.  They sound like this-
We are in and you are out.
We are going to heaven, and if you believe what we believe, you can too.  Just don't pay attention to how we treat others though, our message might not match our behavior.
There is an inherent arrogance there as well.
Life is not about information and arguments.
Life is about loving God and neighbor.  If every church in the world would drop the "we are right, and you are not" mentality, and start focusing on connecting people to God, the world would be a much different and better place.
Back to this again, the role of the church is to connect people to God and neighbor.   Jesus says that "we are a light in the darkness".  Are you the light?
Using social media to bring people closer to God meets that goal.
Through the life, death and resurrection of Jesus, we find communion and connection to God.  Jesus Christ bridges the gap and offers salvation to anyone.
Connecting and communicating that message to the lives of every soul on earth is our chief priority.
Using social media to that end is just another way to convey the timeless, life changing message of Jesus Christ.
Check your social media in your church to see if it:
Shares the message of Jesus Christ in a way that not only informs, but transforms.
Brings people closer to God.
Offers a way to connect to God and neighbor.
Helps others find a way to serve.
As many churches seek to enhance the way they communicate the message of Jesus Christ, please pray for all of us as we succeed and fail in following Jesus.
Be holy.  Stay connected to God.
Go in peace and go with God.

Monday, February 27, 2012

Social Media and the Church Part 6

6. Pastoral Use of Social Media

Pastors don't have much of a "private" life.  Being a pastor has been described as living in a fishbowl.  Some like it.  Some don't.  It's a fact of service.  We are on call 24 hours a day for pastoral emergencies.  What we say on Sunday morning should be what we say the rest of the week.  What we say during the week should be good enough for Sunday morning.  If it's not, we have a serious problem.  The choice to use social media like Facebook, Twitter or a blog is never a private choice.  Whatever is said on Facebook or Twitter reflects on you and the ministry/church that you serve.  There is no fractured dualistic path to say "this doesn't represent the church I serve" because these are my private opinions.  Does that sound consistent?  Now, this is just my opinion.  Some clergy disagree and feel that they may say one thing through social media, but then on Sunday morning would never dare speak of such things.  For me it does not work.  Stand by what you say in private and in public, on the web or in church, together.
So, when it comes to certain issues Pastors should keep their mouths shut.  Yes, they should.
A few pieces of advice.
Don't endorse candidates or political parties, unless it's you or a family member.  It only divides people.  Your job is not to spout about politics and if it's takes up a considerable amount of your time, you are probably not serving well.
Hiding your Social media behavior from the UMC boards or your brothers and sisters in Christ is pointless.  Your pastoral voice (whether in church or the web) should always be consistent and honest.  People talk.  Friend other pastors, and follow back on Twitter.  It's kind and courteous.  Defriending other clergy is not a good idea.  It shows poor judgment and poor character.
Watch what you post because just reposting or putting a link on your pages by default is an endorsement of a viewpoint.  And it viewpoint is not consistent with you and the church, it becomes quite confusing to your church.
Be careful what you post, because it is always there.  Google saves every piece of information on the web, whether you delete it or not.
Do not address church controversies through social media or "church wide" emails.  Speak directly to people.  Emails and social media rants and messages can be misinterpreted.
As a pastor, you are a spiritual leader.  Lead.
The comments and way you interact on social media shows who you really are- especially when it comes to endorsing your favorite sports team.  Be careful.
Here is a very simple rule.
Don't be a jerk on social media.  If you are there, you probably are in your church as well.  Humor is great.  Humor at the expense of others is not so great.
All in all, make sure your online life is consistent with your pastoral ministry life.  This goes for all Christians as well.  Be consistent so that the world knows your witness is true.
Go in peace and go with God.